During the recent East African Community meeting, it was proposed that the borders be open for East Africans (Kenya, Uganda and Tanzania) to move from one country to the other freely. This would mean doing business together, intermarrying, attending schools and colleges without any restrictions. Even mobile companies have started providing roaming services around East Africa.
I later heard from the Radio that this did not go down well with Kenyan ladies. It was said that Kenyan ladies were complaining that Uganda ladies would come to snatch their husbands because they know how to treat men better then us!
It’s always said Ugandan ladies know how to treat men well. They are taught from a young age by their aunts (sengas) how to handle their men. Their famous style of kneeling when greeting people and serving them must be some of the reasons men admires them. Read more from this site which says bedroom matter threatens East African community, http://www.artmatters.info/?articleid=316
In most Kenyan families teaching sex was and is still a taboo. Girls were advised by their grandmothers how to behave but I don’t think they went into such details. Furthermore we Kenyan ladies cannot and will not kneel down when greeting someone or serving someone, unless you are serving God.
Kenyan ladies are branded big headed and stubborn but this does not mean we don’t “perform”. The modern society is very challenging it requires us to have careers work and help men support our families financially. Motherhood is also challenging to a working mother, kids look upon us too. Hence we have limited time to pamper men (like a single colleague of mine said, we married women should pamper men to win their love or loose them to single ladies).
I think our men are asking for too much, why don’t they travel to Ugandan and get them instead of waiting for the borders to open?
What I need to know, these Uganda’s ladies they are good in what? Sex, character, physical shape? If the answer is sex then what makes a man happy? What is a man looking for in a woman?
Please help me answer these questions, because I am lost in the mystery about men.