Looking for someone to have a relationship for life is normally not an easy task. People have made various mistakes as they try to get the right partners of their life. However, the decision to get married at times becomes irreversible. People normally start to notice problems and the reality of what they have got themselves into far much later in the relationship. Most of the times this happens when the children have come into the family and possibility of separation becomes remote.
People choose there partners for various reasons but some of these reasons are regrettable. We know of ladies who had turned many relationships down for trivial reasons. Such ladies had laid down a yardstick for what they will go for and they are not willing to compromise this. We all know ladies that have stated key economic parameters that they are looking for and that the man of their dream must have. This is where the big problem starts.
Well it is good to have an economically stable partner but I don’t think that is all we should look for. Life is not made of money and goodies alone. Money can obviously not buy every thing as one man once said “money can buy a good bed but not sleep”.
My point is that Mr. Right is not clothed with economic strength but a genuine love for you. How many of us entered into marriages or intend to go into it driven by love and not economic status of the partners. How many have pretended to love in order to encroach in to their partner’s empire of wealth.
I strongly believe that money on its own cannot sustain a relationship. It must be blended by a strong love. If you are in it because of money you will leave it because of the same.
We have seen friends that have decided to remain single as they wait for Mr. and Mrs. Right. However, the attribute of such a person in most cases is sited to be a rich man, stable employment, financial stability, independent, good profession, adequate investment etc. These are what some of our ladies and gentlemen look in partners to be.
I want say that men make money but money don’t make men. Hope you agree to that?
That is were we have all got it wrong.
Think twice as you look for Mr. or Mrs. Right.